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The Hidden Gifts of Autism: Beauty, Memory, and Logic

When a child is diagnosed with autism, it’s natural for parents to feel a mix of emotions. You may worry about challenges they’ll face or how to best support them. But what often gets overlooked are the incredible strengths that autism can bring. These strengths, unique to each child, can be a source of awe, pride, and hope for families. In this blog, I want to share three extraordinary traits I’ve seen in my autistic daughter—traits that showcase how autism can be a profound gift. Every child’s journey is different, but I hope this offers encouragement and helps you see the potential for amazing things in your own child.

1. A Deep Appreciation for Beauty

One of the first things I noticed about my daughter was her incredible ability to notice and deeply appreciate beauty. When she was just five years old, she looked at a peony in our garden and told me it made her heart want to burst. During a trip to Spain, she couldn’t stop marveling at the flowers lining the streets. For her, these weren’t just pretty decorations; they were a source of immense joy and wonder. This heightened appreciation is likely tied to sensory processing differences common in autism. While sensory sensitivities can sometimes lead to discomfort, they can also allow for a richer, more vibrant experience of the world. Autistic individuals often notice details others overlook, finding beauty in places most people take for granted. For my daughter, this sensitivity means she connects deeply with nature and art. It’s a reminder of how autism can enrich a person’s ability to experience joy and wonder in the world around them. Imagine what a gift that is—to feel so moved by the small, beautiful things in life.

2. An Exceptional Memory

Another strength that never ceases to amaze me is my daughter’s incredible memory. She remembers exactly who gave her every single birthday present, even from years ago. Her ability to recall details from when she was very young often leaves our family in awe. In fact, relatives regularly turn to her to check their own memories or clarify events. This kind of remarkable memory is a common trait in many autistic individuals. Research suggests that autistic people often excel in certain types of memory, such as visual or autobiographical recall. This ability to retain and retrieve information with such precision can be a powerful tool, whether it’s for learning, problem-solving, or building relationships. For my daughter, her memory not only helps her stay connected to people and events but also serves as a foundation for confidence and independence. It’s easy to see how this trait could become a superpower as she grows, whether in academics, her career, or simply in the way she engages with the world.

3. A Gift for Logical Thinking and Pattern Recognition

At just six years old, my daughter mastered all three Monument Valley games—a series known for its challenging puzzles and complex patterns. She has an incredible ability to see connections and solve problems with logical precision. Watching her work through these puzzles with ease has been brilliant and sometimes we do them together but she is far better than I am at it. This ability to recognize patterns and think logically is another trait commonly associated with autism. Many autistic individuals excel in areas like mathematics, coding, engineering, or design, where pattern recognition and problem-solving are key. Some researchers believe this stems from a unique way of processing information—breaking down problems into smaller, logical components. For my daughter, this gift doesn’t just show up in games; it’s part of how she navigates the world. Whether it’s organizing her toys or understanding how things work, her logical mind is a constant strength. It’s exciting to imagine the possibilities this skill could open up for her future.

A Message of Hope

As parents, it’s easy to focus on the challenges that come with raising a neurodivergent child. But it’s just as important to recognize and celebrate their unique gifts. Autism brings with it a different way of experiencing the world—one that can include incredible strengths like heightened sensitivity, exceptional memory, and logical brilliance. Every autistic child is different, and their strengths will be too. Whether it’s creativity, problem-solving, kindness, or a unique perspective on the world, there’s so much to celebrate. By focusing on these strengths, we can help our children see themselves not just as people who face challenges but as individuals who have so much to offer. If you’re on this journey with your child, take a moment to notice the extraordinary things they bring to your life. Those strengths might just be their superpowers.